Ama ng Asawa Ko Walang Pensiyon, Pero Inalagaan Ko Siya ng 12 Taon. Sa Huling Hininga Niya, Iniabot Niyang Isang Sirang Unan at Bumulong: “Para kay Teresa.” Nang Buksan Ko, Niyakap Ko Ito at Umiyak ng Hagulgol…

Ama ng Asawa Ko Walang Pensiyon, Pero Inalagaan Ko Siya ng 12 Taon. Sa Huling Hininga Niya, Iniabot Niyang Isang Sirang Unan at Bumulong: “Para kay Teresa.” Nang Buksan Ko, Niyakap Ko Ito at Umiyak ng Hagulgol…

My Husband’s Father Didn’t Have a Pension, But I Took Care of Him for 12 Years. As He Breathed His Last, He Handed Me a Broken Pillow and Whispered: “For Teresa.” When I Opened It, I Hug It and Wept…

I entered my husband’s family when I was 26 years old. At that time, their family had already gone through many trials. My mother-in-law passed away early, leaving my father-in-law thin and frail, raising four children alone. He had been a farmer all his life in the province of Batangas, without a job with benefits, so he had no pension or savings.

When I became a son-in-law, all of my husband’s siblings had their own families, rarely visiting or even worrying about Father. So his old age, almost entirely depended on my husband and me.

I often hear a neighbor whisper:

Not everything was easy. In the early years, when I was young, I often felt tired and resentful. There were nights when my husband was at work in Manila, and I was alone at home taking care of our little son and my frail mother-in-law.

Sometimes, because I was so tired, I couldn’t help but say:

– “Father, I’m just a daughter-in-law… sometimes my chest feels heavy.”

She just looked at me silently, holding my hand tremblingly:

– “I know, hija… that’s why I’m even more grateful. Without you, I might have given up long ago.”

I’ll never forget that. From then on, I decided that no matter how hard it was, I wouldn’t abandon her.

Every cold December, I bought her a thick jacket. When her stomach hurt, I cooked her thin porridge. On nights when she coughed, I rubbed oil on her and massaged her feet. I never thought that there would be any return. For me, it was just my duty as a child of the home.

The Last Breath

Time passed, and she grew weaker. At the age of 85, the doctor said that her time was near. In her last days, she often called me to listen to her memories, and to leave instructions for her grandchildren.

Until that afternoon. While she was struggling to breathe, she called me. Her hand was shaking as she took out an old pillowcase, almost full of holes, from under the pillow. She handed it to me and whispered softly:

– “For… Teresa…”

I – Teresa – burst into tears, hugging the pillow tightly, I could not fully understand. In just a few minutes, she closed her eyes completely, leaving me in deep sorrow.

The Secret of the Old Pillow

That evening, after all the preparations for the funeral were done, I took the old pillow and opened the torn fabric. I was shocked when folded bills, small pieces of gold, and a few passbooks from the bank in town came out.

I burst into tears. How did he do it? Despite his poverty, he had saved everything he had saved from the gifts his children had given him, and the little he had earned from selling the remaining land. He hid it all inside an old pillow.

Included was a letter that was hard to read because of his shaky handwriting:

“You are the best son-in-law God has ever given me. I will leave no wealth, but may this help ease the heavy burden you are carrying. Don’t blame your husband’s siblings – I chose to give this to you, because you are with me every day of my old age.”

I hugged the pillow and cried uncontrollably. Not because of the money or gold, but because of the love and recognition he gave.

The True Legacy

At the funeral, there were whispers among relatives: “What else did the old man leave behind?”

I just smiled bitterly. Because I knew what he left behind was more than any wealth.

He left me the lesson that true love does not have to be tied to blood. That sometimes, choosing to be good is what brings you the most profound connection.

To this day, every time I see the old pillow, I remember my father. To me, he was not just a father-in-law – but a true father. The man who taught me the meaning of gratitude and sacrifice.